Before
considering asking spirits to leave
a place, think about what would happen if they were gone. Are ghosts good for
business in a hotel or restaurant? If so, the owners may not want the spirits
to leave. If the spirit likes being in a
location, are they hurting anyone by being there? If not, maybe the best thing to do is to
leave them alone. However, if the ghost is scaring people and you need to get rid of
it there are a few methods that have worked well for me.
The first method is to simply ask the
ghost to
leave. That may sound too simple, but it
usually works. You may want to talk to
it and explain why by saying “You are scaring us,” or “This is ____________’s
house and she is not comfortable having you here.”, then calmly ask it to go
away. If this doesn’t work right away, try talking in a firmer voice without
yelling or getting angry. Anger only gives more power to negative spirits
As I mentioned earlier, ghosts may not
be aware that they are dead, so you may have to explain to them that they are
no longer part of the physical world and that they should look around for their
spirit guides and move
on towards the light. I close my eyes
and visualize the spirit going into the light and ask the spirit to go to the light with their family members. There are always loved ones waiting to assist a spirit cross over.. This method has been very successful
for me. Some spirits are reluctant, but if you tell them that it
will be better for them this way, they eventually move on.
If you don’t feel like you are communicating, call in an experienced medium. This can usually be accomplished in one visit. If the medium finds that the spirit wants help with something, and it is something they can do, or you can do, by all means go ahead and do it. That may be the only reason the spirit is staying behind. If there is nothing you can do, have the medium communicate that you wish you could help but you can’t, and it would be best for the spirit to move on.
If you don’t feel like you are communicating, call in an experienced medium. This can usually be accomplished in one visit. If the medium finds that the spirit wants help with something, and it is something they can do, or you can do, by all means go ahead and do it. That may be the only reason the spirit is staying behind. If there is nothing you can do, have the medium communicate that you wish you could help but you can’t, and it would be best for the spirit to move on.
If the spirit simply refuses, try not
giving it any attention or talking about it at all. This takes energy away from
the spirit. Don’t show any fear, because
the energy of fear empowers negative spirits. Also do not use a Ouija board or have
anything to do with the supernatural, which could open doors to the spirit
world and allow the spirit more access during the time you are trying to get it
to leave, and until you are certain it is gone.
Go about your daily routine, and when
something happens that can only be attributed to a ghost try to ignore it. The ghost may give up and move on if its
intentions were only to get your attention.
f it looks like the problem is more
sinister, or there are multiple spirits in the house, you will probably want to engage
the services of an experienced psychic, medium, or ghost hunter. Find someone who has a lot of experience and
check references if at all possible.
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Margie Kay is the editor of Un-X News Magazine and host of Un-X News Radio Show. She is the author of Gateway to the Dead, Haunted Independence, and 12 more books on various topics. Visit www.unxnews.com for more information.